well i finally found it ..had to set it to 5 ..so i take it any edges that are not by holes will be in bold. But if it is on edges it indicates double edge ? and something to be fixed ?

i just deleted both faces and then just picked all the edges and append poly tool and then just deleted the edge and then split poly tool to give it back shape ..Then it went ahead and went to sub-d .

Is that the correct way ?

it took me all of 2 min lol

thanks for your help once again, Mat. there are a few of you that have really kept me on track and taught me things. Thanks to all of you. Also special thanks to kurt for the tutorial. hopefully i will make it threw.

also previous question. How do you all go about seeing a smooth image or see how to pull things up and down to get the proper proportions ?