Relax and have patience. This stuff takes time to understand. We've all been there before, so what you're feeling right now is completely normal. I've been doing 3D for almost 10 years now, and it's been a continuous learning process.

If you can, I would highly recommend checking out the video tutorials from this site, especially the VIP vids. They are very good at showing you what to do and how to do it. Getting books is one thing, but seeing the work in action is another thing entirely.

Also, post any questions that you may have here on the forums and on the IRC channel. There are quite a few regulars in the chat room every night (myself and mtmckinley included), and we are more than happy to help you out.

Most of all, don't give up!