I feel your pain my man, but Believe me, it dose get better, after 15 years of marriage and calling it quits is a pain in the ass, but what got me through it was realizing that my kids would adapt to the change as long as I kept them first and letting them know that it was not their fault, so in time they do see it was for the best, because now every one is happy. Just hang in there and always keep your head up high, Life is too short to be bummed out my manOriginally posted by Kreed_UK
Thanks guys. It's 4.25 am here at the mo, & i'm up thinking about the shit going on.
Kev/Dave, I'm definitely up for a pint with you guys, i'll let you know when i can make some time.
Just so it's understood, my marriage aint going anywhere & i've an 8 year old son. I wont leave coz of the hurt it will cause him, & i'm now involved with someone who i nearly married 21 years ago. Yep! 21 years ago, anyone wanna write a book on that? We split coz of parental pressure.
I hadn't seen her since then, & had no idea where she was. By sheer luck we got in touch, & it's clear the love & passion is still there. It cant go the way we want it to though, as she has 3 kids with the youngest only 8.
Life's a bummer sometimes, but we'll get on with living for today & not plan for the future.
All the best guys.
I'll pop in from time to time.